If she feels a little guilt or shame because you’re doing something a little… different, she needs time to become comfortable. The only thing I want to add is that please do not be like most men and badger her about this. But will respond below because he has some ideas for you. And honestly, we have not run across many blogs that are from couples who are more like us. I just don’t know where women should go for more information that isn’t stupid fantasy material written by men. I always have a hard time with this question because, well, there really weren’t any books or anything when we started. Yes, it’s a hot idea, and we do talk about having a device permanently “installed,” but right now it’s just not something I want him to do. His cage hasn’t been off for more than a few hours, there’s no way I’d want it off for that kind of time. Undoing the piercing once or twice a week doesn’t sound like a safe idea to me.įinally, if I were to have him pierced now, he would have to leave the cage off for weeks or a couple of months while it healed and stretched up.
How would he be able to unlock and remove a hoop in case something happened?Īlso in the warmer weather I allow him to remove the cage for road biking so he doesn’t get chafed or injured. At my insistence, he usually has an emergency key. And quite honestly, at this point there’s no way that he would break a 3 ½ year long streak - and since men are so competitive about things, I can’t imagine that ever changing 😅.īut there’s also a safety factor that concerns me. That is, he can’t “pull out” except on hot days when he’s been working in the yard, and gets into a hot shower. We have talked about this a few times, but his cage right now is about 90% secure, and I’m okay with that. I almost always allow him, because it’s fun and hot and sexy to make your partner come, and it makes me feel like a hot sex goddess to know that I can get him so hot for me that he will come that way. When I can see that he’s getting close, I remind him that he has to ask for my permission. I almost forgot the most important thing. Things like “I can’t even remember how you felt inside me, ” or “The Ranger is my favorite cock now, and it’s the only one that will ever be in me again,” or “The Ranger is your cock now, the thing between your legs is just a cage.” Telling him things like that while I ride him will almost always make him come. I like to say naughty things to him that get his really turned on. Sometimes he shares a fantasy or a sexy dream when we make love, and I take my cue from that. Typically, though, it ranges a few weeks to maybe 2 months. 😅 It helps if it has been a long time since his last orgasm, but I have been able to make him come 3 weeks in a row. Of course, this isn’t usually a problem for my husband. I’m not exactly sure how he does this, but he has to be very aroused.
😂 In fact, that’s one of the reasons that I enjoy keeping him locked up.ĭoes it take a specific position or mental state for Tom to ejaculate during sex? Or a combination of things? a combination of things.
Tom is perpetually 16, and has no problem getting aroused. My husband makes me have plenty of orgasms from intercourse, and that’s how I prefer to have them.Īlso, I can make him aroused enough to come in his cage when we make love, which makes me feel like a sex goddess.įinally, I do not “tease” him, in the sense that I do not do anything special to get him aroused. Where’s the fun for me in that? And honestly, I don’t even care for it on me for those same reasons. I don’t care for it because it makes him have a fast, very ruined orgasm. In the past, I have tried using a vibrator on his cage. Personally, I prefer to lay back and have Tom do all the work to pleasure me. I don’t have anything against it, but for me, the idea is too dommish or mistressy or something. 🙄īut no, I do not do anything like that. First, I have to say that i really hate the word “pegging.” You can tell that it must have been made up by a man.
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